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Parashat Vayetze In this week’s reading we find the trip of Yaakov from Beer Sheva (a holy place) to Charan (an unholy place). This trip can represent the trip of each one of us in many aspects of our lifes. In general: tools to leave your comfort zone. Based on Likutey Sichot, vol. 1, p. 60
In this week’s reading, we begin with the story of Jacob. He was living peacefully and tranquilly in the land of Israel with his father. Jacob was in a holy environment, a place of spiritual serenity. However, he was compelled to leave his comfort zone and travel to Charan, a place in Syria where he was to meet his future father-in-law, Lavan. Lavan was a deceitful and dishonest man, the complete opposite of what Jacob was used to. Jacob was thus faced with the challenge of leaving a sacred place to build a holy family in a very unholy and hostile environment.
This story has profound lessons for us, as the deeds of our forefathers are considered a siman, a sign or guide, for our lives today. By examining how Jacob prepared himself for this challenge, we can learn the tools necessary to create a holy family and succeed in our modern, often difficult world.
Jacob’s Preparation:
- Prayer as the First Step:
Jacob had a dream in which he saw a ladder standing on the ground, reaching to the heavens, with angels ascending and descending. This vision symbolizes prayer, a connection with G-d. Jacob’s first step was to pray and connect with G-d. Whether one is leaving the land of Israel or facing any other life challenge, prayer is essential. It is the means by which we become conscious of G-d’s presence in every step we take. - Protecting the Head:
The Torah tells us that Jacob gathered stones and placed them around his head as he slept. Why only around his head? If he was afraid of wild animals, he should have protected his entire body, perhaps by building an igloo-like structure. But Jacob deliberately chose to protect only his head. This teaches us something important: the head represents the mind and the intellect. Jacob understood that success in a hostile environment depends on safeguarding his thoughts and aligning them with G-d’s teachings. By embedding G-d’s words deeply into his mind and heart, he created an inner protection that enabled him to thrive even in adverse circumstances.
Jacob left his comfort zone and ventured into a difficult, even hostile, environment. The Torah describes Charan as a place that provoked G-d’s anger more than any other place on earth. Yet, Jacob managed to build a family and fulfill his mission there. This was possible because he prepared himself through prayer and by focusing his thoughts on G-d’s will.
For us, this means that in any challenging situation, we can follow the same steps. First, we connect to G-d through prayer. Second, we guard and focus our minds by studying and internalizing G-d’s teachings. By doing so, we can be successful, even when we find ourselves in unfamiliar or challenging territory.ce the harder aspects of divine service, for it is in those efforts that we fulfill our ultimate purpose.
Parshat Talk from Rabbi Tuvia Serber
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