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Some thoughts about Parshat Shelach (and Pirkei Avot)
Parshat Shelach – Joy, Growth, and Honor: A Universal Code of Reverence
“Be yielding to a leader, affable to the black-haired, and receive every man with joy.”
(Ethics of the Fathers 3:12)
This powerful teaching from Rabbi Ishmael presents a fascinating tension: it calls for both respect for authority and radical openness to others. How can we be both reverent and egalitarian? The Torah’s answer is not to choose one over the other, but to live with the paradox, embracing both hierarchy and human dignity as part of a greater spiritual harmony.
Spiritual Growth Is a Lifelong Climb
One way Rabbi Ishmael’s teaching is understood is through the metaphor of youth and old age. When we are young—whether in age or spiritual maturity—we have energy and curiosity, but may be distracted by external pleasures. With age—or as we grow spiritually—comes a quieter, deeper joy: the ability to engage in contemplation, prayer, and meaningful connection.
If you feel you’ve already missed your chance, the Torah reminds us: you can always begin again. The sages teach that spiritual time is not linear. You can reclaim your inner youth, your drive, your connection, in any moment by choosing to move toward G-d once more.
Why Hierarchy Still Matters
Although all people are equal in their basic dignity and worth, not everyone is at the same point in their spiritual journey. Rabbi Ishmael teaches us to respect those who have gone before us and to act gently toward those still growing. This is not a statement of superiority—it’s an acknowledgment of process. We learn from those above and support those still climbing.
For Noahides, this includes recognizing the role of the Jewish people as guardians of the Torah while also embracing your own Divine mission through the Seven Noahide Laws and ethical refinement. There’s no shame in learning from someone further along, just as there’s beauty in encouraging someone behind you.
The Power of a Joyful Heart
Regardless of where we stand, one thing unites us all: the need to be seen and welcomed with joy. As Proverbs teaches, “Like water reflects a face, so the heart of one person reflects another”. When we smile at others, we awaken warmth in them. When we extend dignity, we uplift their soul.
The Talmudic sage Abbaye expands on this, saying: “Speak gently to all people—even the non-Jew in the marketplace—so that you will be beloved above and cherished below.” What a beautiful principle. No one is excluded from the reach of kindness, decency, and reverence. This is one of the greatest testimonies of a G-d-conscious life.
Now, reflect on the following questions:
- Am I honoring the elders or mentors in my life with true respect and humility?
- Do I extend warmth and encouragement to those still finding their way?
- How can I bring joy into the lives of those around me, regardless of background or belief?
- Where might I be stuck in a view of myself as “too late” or “too far gone”? What would it mean to start again?
- Do I embody reverence and kindness in a way that reflects G-d’s image to the world?
Shabbat Shalom!
By Rabbi Tani Burton
If you want more questions for contemplation, SEE THE OTHER BLOGS FROM RABBI TANI BURTON ABOUT DE PARSHAT QUESTIONS
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