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Some thoughts the Parsha

“Behold, I set before you this day a blessing and a curse: the blessing, if you shall hearken unto the commandments of the LORD your G-d… and the curse, if you shall not hearken…”
(Deuteronomy 11:26–28)

What is a blessing, and what is a curse?

In Hebrew, the word for blessing—bracha—carries the idea of expansion. When we bless, we are not merely giving thanks, but expanding our awareness of G-d through the gifts He has placed in our lives. Even something as simple as eating an apple can become an act of higher consciousness if it reminds us of the One who provides it. A curse, on the other hand, is not just bad luck or misfortune, but the collapse and ruin that comes from turning away from G-d.

The great commentator Seforno explains that blessing means receiving far beyond what one might expect, while curse means falling far below. There is no neutral middle ground—our choices either open us toward blessing or pull us toward curse.

Beyond Ritual

Rabbi Bachya Ibn Paquda, in Duties of the Heart, explains that even the most ordinary activities—eating, working, exercising, building a family—can fall into two categories: service of G-d or self-indulgence. The dividing line is intention. If our actions are done for the sake of Heaven—that is, with a conscious purpose to serve, uplift, or connect to G-d—they become mitzvah-like deeds. If they are done purely for self-gratification, they lose their higher value and slide toward corruption.

For Noahides, this principle is vital. While you are not bound by the 613 commandments given to Israel, the same truth applies: life is not divided neatly into “sacred” and “mundane.” Every choice has spiritual weight. Honesty in business, kindness in the home, gratitude in daily living—these are holy acts when directed toward G-d.

The Everyday Test

This perspective may feel intimidating, because it seems to place all of life under a spotlight. But it is also deeply encouraging. It means that your entire life is an opportunity for connection. The office, the kitchen, the studio, or the garden are not “neutral zones” outside of holiness; they are the very arenas where faith becomes real.

The Jewish tradition warns against compartmentalizing—living a “split life” where G-d is only acknowledged in special places or rituals. True holiness means bringing all of life under His light. A happier, healthier, more balanced person is also a better servant of G-d, because he or she can bring more strength, joy, and presence to every task.

A Word of Caution

Here, however, we must remember an important boundary. As Rambam and Meiri warn, it is forbidden for Noahides to create new religious rituals or “add commandments” that G-d has not given. To invent your own mitzvot is to fall into the problem of mechadesh dat. The challenge is not to imitate Israel’s ritual obligations, but to bring creativity, integrity, and purpose into your own G-d-given path. Within those boundaries, there is great freedom to sanctify your daily life.

What Does This Mean for Us?

Life is cyclical. Even the greatest spiritual people rise and fall in their awareness. One moment is filled with clarity and prayer; the next is filled with the demands of work or family. That is natural. What matters is not perfection, but orientation: choosing again and again to connect life back to its Source.

When you remember that blessing flows from living in line with G-d’s will, even the most ordinary moment—sharing a meal, speaking kindly, working honestly—becomes holy.

Now, reflect on the following questions:

  1. How do I define blessing in my own life—by material gain, or by closeness to G-d?
  2. When I engage in ordinary tasks, do I stop to ask: is this for myself alone, or can it be for G-d’s sake?
  3. Where am I most tempted to separate my “spiritual life” from my “daily life”?
  4. How can I use joy, health, or creativity as tools for serving G-d rather than escaping Him?
  5. Do I risk inventing new rituals, or do I channel my creativity into sanctifying what is already permitted and good?

Shabbat Shalom!

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By Rabbi Tani Burton

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