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I was once asked why G-d would allow people to grow up believing untruths about Him. Some people discover later in life that they’ve been on a wrong path and feel tremendous bitterness towards G-d. Here’s my response:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’m never comfortable trying to explain the ways of the Almighty, because who am I? We have an entire book of the Bible where Job’s three friends try to explain why he is undergoing such incredible suffering. Job can’t understand why a benevolent G-d would allow him to be tortured so horribly. His friends, though, “understand”. Finally, G-d interrupts these wise men and says, “Excuse me. What do you know about running a world? Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundations? Did you ever in your life command forth the morning or teach the dawn its place? (Job 37-39) He had Isaiah convey similarly, \u201cMy thoughts are not your thoughts\u2026\u201d (55:8-9)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But let\u2019s think a little more about your question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not only does G-d prohibit idolatry, He prohibits murder, rape and kidnapping. But we know these terrible sins are committed. Why does G-d allow people to violate His will? Let\u2019s be clear however. We want to know why G-d allows people to do these things. He doesn\u2019t do these things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As you know, Jews like to answer a question with a question. (It seems even G-d does as well. That\u2019s the \u201canswer\u201d in the book of Job. G-d answers Job and his friends by posing a series of questions to them). Yes, G-d allows us to do horrible things and make terrible mistakes in life. Why did G-d allow that person to smoke for 35 years and bring such misery upon himself and his family? Why does G-d allow ISIS to commit acts of outrageous brutality? So here is my question: Would you rather live in a world where we never had the ability to do wrong? Would you rather live in a world where G-d would step in and prevent every mistake people make in life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The most precious thing that G-d gave human beings was free will. He can\u2019t force us to do good, to help others, to be kind. These would not be virtuous behaviors if we were merely puppets in His hands. Sure. G-d could have created human beings programmed like robots who never violate His will. G-d could have created beings that never lied or cheated or murdered. But He must have had a good reason for not creating us like that. And I suspect that most of us, when thinking soberly about this, would also not prefer to live a life without the ability to choose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When a drug dealer tries to sell a high school student some pills or a swindling con artist tries to get someone to \u2018invest\u2019 with her, or a preacher tries to convince others to follow his ridiculous fantasies \u2013 should G-d just veto all of this? Would we really prefer living in a world where we could never do wrong. Where it would be impossible to make mistakes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I was growing up, there was an episode of the Twilight Zone where some miserable low life dies and finds himself in this palatial casino. All around, all he can see are cute waitresses offering drinks and craps tables, roulette wheels and black jack games. He starts to play and he wins. He wins again, again, again and again. After a few days of this he finally realizes the place he\u2019s in is not heaven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The price of admission of being a human is free will. If G-d forced us to love Him, it wouldn’t really be love. If G-d forced me to give charity, I would not be a generous person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If I discovered after years of believing something that wasn\u2019t true that I was misled, I would not be upset with G-d for allowing me to persist in that error. I\u2019d be upset with the people who led me in that direction. But usually, the people who misled me were themselves misled. (G-d, of course, takes this into consideration when judging us. Our sages speak about the case of a Jew who was kidnapped as a child and raised without knowledge of Torah law. Clearly, s\/he will not be held accountable by G-d for not following the Torah.) The real fault lies with those who originally knew the truth and chose to go off in their own direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know I\u2019ve intellectualized a very emotional issue. Even if you can explain to a child why they were punished severely by their parents, and the child understood \u2013 it\u2019s still painful. I\u2019m sure that even if people can come to a place where they don\u2019t hold G-d responsible for their mistakes, it doesn\u2019t make the pain of dealing with the feeling of having wasted years of their life go away. But the other great gift that G-d gave us is the ability to change. In the Torah this is called Teshuvah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repentance can help us not live a life of bitterness and depression after realizing we were wrong. Our sages say that if we repent out of love, then our past mistakes become merits. This is similar to the idea that after a bone breaks and heals \u2013 it gets stronger. I once heard a beautiful story from someone who grew up totally disconnected from truth. He met someone later in life who said that he actually had a great advantage. \u201cWhat could that be?\u201d He was told that we are all connected to the Almighty. That\u2019s how we come off the conveyor belt. But if that connection is ever cut or broken, and we retie it \u2013 it gets shorter. Or, as our sages teach: In the place where a repentant person stands, even the perfectly righteous cannot stand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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