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\u05d1\u05e1”\u05d3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A THOUGHT ABOUT PARSHAT<\/a> <\/strong>CHAYEI SARA 5786<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Blessing of True Kindness<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAbraham was old, well advanced in years, and the L-rd had blessed Abraham in all things.\u201d
(Genesis 24:1)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When the Torah tells us that Abraham had grown old and was \u201cblessed in all things,\u201d at first glance it seems like a simple statement: he had wealth, honor, and children. Yet our sages raised a fundamental question: the reward for good deeds is generally reserved for the World to Come. How, then, could Abraham be blessed here and now \u2013 with everything?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Double Blessing<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Netivot Shalom<\/em> and Be\u2019er Mayim Chaim<\/em> offer a deeper insight: the reward for a mitzvah comes in two layers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. The eternal reward<\/strong>, preserved for the World to Come.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. The fruits of the mitzvah in this world<\/strong>, which one may already experience.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    This blessing in the present is not the result of merely following rules, but of deeds that bring goodness to others. Those who spread kindness receive goodness in return\u2014not as payment, but as a reflection of who they have become.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Chesed Shel Emet \u2013 True Kindness<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    After describing Sarah\u2019s burial, the Torah continues:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201cThen Abraham buried his wife Sarah in the cave of the field of Machpelah\u2026 And Abraham was old, well advanced in years, and the Lord had blessed Abraham in all things.\u201d
    (Genesis 23:19\u201324:1)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The Be\u2019er Mayim Chaim<\/em> notes that these verses follow directly, signaling cause and effect. Abraham\u2019s personal care in burying his wife is exactly why he was blessed with \u201ceverything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Burying the dead is what our sages call chesed shel emet<\/strong> \u2013 true kindness. A deed that cannot be repaid, because the deceased can give nothing in return. Its intent is completely pure. In such selflessness lies the highest form of love. Abraham was blessed because he himself had become a blessing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Blessing in the Here and Now<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    The Torah is not saying Abraham received his reward prematurely, but that his goodness was so pure it bore fruit in this world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    True compassion transforms not only the life of the recipient but also the life of the giver. \u201cBlessed in all things\u201d does not mean Abraham possessed everything, but that he became everything<\/em>\u2014fully aligned with the purpose for which he was created.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A Lesson for All People<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Kindness is not exclusive to one nation. Anyone, in the spirit of Abraham, can become a source of blessing. For those following the Noahide path, this means not waiting for a future reward, but recognizing that every act of compassion in this life is itself a form of blessing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When someone helps another\u2014offers comfort, assistance, or respect\u2014it reflects the divine spark present in every human being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A notable example is caring for the dead. While cremation is not forbidden for Noahides, burial in the earth is considered the most natural and dignified choice: the human returns to the soil from which they were formed. The Talmud even praises those who bury non-Jews, out of respect for every person created in the image of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ways to Care for the Deceased<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    The Torah regards caring for the dead as one of the highest forms of kindness. Some ways to do this include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n