{"id":24897,"date":"2026-08-21T15:42:01","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T14:42:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukkatshalom-bneinoach.com\/?p=24897"},"modified":"2026-08-26T05:04:55","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T04:04:55","slug":"parshat-ki-teitzei-what-do-i-really-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukkatshalom-bneinoach.com\/fr\/parshat-ki-teitzei-what-do-i-really-want\/","title":{"rendered":"PARACHAT KI TEITZEI \u2013 QU\u2019EST-CE QUE JE VEUX VRAIMENT\u00a0?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">\u05d1\u201d\u05d4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Hashem nous a cr\u00e9\u00e9s avec des d\u00e9sirs, mais Il nous a aussi donn\u00e9 quelque chose de plus profond : la capacit\u00e9 de choisir ce que nous voulons vraiment devenir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>La paracha Ki Teitzei commence par l&#039;une des lois les plus surprenantes de la Torah.<br><br>Un soldat juif part \u00e0 la guerre et aper\u00e7oit parmi les captifs une belle femme. <em>un eshet yefat to&#039;ar <\/em>\u2014 et la d\u00e9sire. La Torah \u00e9tablit alors une proc\u00e9dure particuli\u00e8re r\u00e9gissant la suite des \u00e9v\u00e9nements.<br><br>Rachi explique :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201c Lo dibrah Torah ela keneged yetzer hara \u201d \u2014 \u201c La Torah ne parlait qu\u2019en r\u00e9ponse au yetzer hara. \u201d\u00b9<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La Torah reconna\u00eet l&#039;immense pouvoir du d\u00e9sir humain.<br><br>Mais qui est ce soldat ?<br><br>Est-il une personne moralement corrompue qui a pass\u00e9 des ann\u00e9es \u00e0 nourrir ses instincts les plus vils ?<br><br>Le Rabbi de Loubavitch souligne un point remarquable. Ce m\u00eame soldat vient de partir au combat avec <em>mesirat nefesh<\/em>, pr\u00eat \u00e0 risquer sa vie. Il peut se trouver \u00e0 un niveau spirituel extr\u00eamement \u00e9lev\u00e9 \u2014 et pourtant, imm\u00e9diatement apr\u00e8s, la Torah le met en garde contre la tentation de <em>yefat to&#039;ar<\/em>.<br><br>M\u00eame une personne occupant un poste tr\u00e8s \u00e9lev\u00e9 doit rester vigilante face au yetzer hara. Et, ajoute le Rebbe, m\u00eame celui qui est tomb\u00e9 tr\u00e8s bas conserve la capacit\u00e9 de se relever.\u00b2 <br><br>Cela nous apprend quelque chose de fondamental sur la condition humaine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Qui a cr\u00e9\u00e9 le d\u00e9sir ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On imagine parfois qu&#039;une personne v\u00e9ritablement spirituelle devrait finir par cesser d&#039;\u00e9prouver des d\u00e9sirs inappropri\u00e9s.<br><br>Si j&#039;ai des difficult\u00e9s, c&#039;est peut-\u00eatre qu&#039;il y a quelque chose qui ne va pas chez moi.<br><br>Mais Hashem cr\u00e9a l&#039;\u00eatre humain.<br><br>Il a cr\u00e9\u00e9 l&#039;app\u00e9tit, l&#039;attirance, l&#039;ambition, la sexualit\u00e9, la col\u00e8re, la comp\u00e9titivit\u00e9, l&#039;ego et le d\u00e9sir de plaisir. Ces forces peuvent \u00eatre utilis\u00e9es \u00e0 bon ou \u00e0 mauvais escient. Elles peuvent \u00eatre \u00e9lev\u00e9es ou d\u00e9grad\u00e9es.<br><br>La capacit\u00e9 de d\u00e9sirer fait partie int\u00e9grante de notre nature.<br><br>Cela ne signifie pas que chaque \u00eatre humain d\u00e9sire naturellement tout ce qui est interdit. Hashem a plut\u00f4t cr\u00e9\u00e9 de puissantes pulsions humaines qui, dans certaines circonstances, peuvent se diriger vers<br>quelque chose d&#039;interdit.<br><br>La question n&#039;est donc pas seulement :<br><br>\u201c Que ressens-je ? \u201d<br><br>C&#039;est:<br><br>\u201cQue vais-je faire de ce que je ressens?\u201d<br><br>Le rabbin Elazar ben Azariah l&#039;exprime avec une franchise extraordinaire. Un Juif ne devrait pas dire\u00a0: \u201c\u00a0Je ne d\u00e9sire pas le porc\u00a0\u201d ou \u201c\u00a0Je ne d\u00e9sire pas les relations interdites\u00a0\u201d.\u201d<br><br>Plut\u00f4t:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201c Je le d\u00e9sire, mais que puis-je faire ? Mon P\u00e8re c\u00e9leste en a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 autrement. \u201d\u00b3<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La Torah ne d\u00e9finit pas la saintet\u00e9 comme le fait de ne jamais subir de tentation.<br><br>La saintet\u00e9 commence lorsque le d\u00e9sir rencontre quelque chose de plus \u00e9lev\u00e9 que le d\u00e9sir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mais que d\u00e9sir\u00e9-je vraiment ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ici, les Sages nous emm\u00e8nent encore plus loin.<br><br>La Guemara rapporte une pri\u00e8re remarquable :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c Ma\u00eetre de l\u2019Univers, il est r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 et connu de Toi que notre volont\u00e9 est de faire Ta volont\u00e9. Qu\u2019est-ce qui nous en emp\u00eache ? Le levain dans la p\u00e2te et la subjugation des nations. \u201d\u2074<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La \u201c levure dans la p\u00e2te \u201d est le yetzer hara.<br><br>Nous semblons donc \u00eatre face \u00e0 une contradiction.<br><br>D&#039;un certain point de vue, je peux dire\u00a0:<br><br>\u201cJe veux cette chose interdite.\u201d<br><br>Pourtant, la Guemara dit :<br><br>\u201c Notre volont\u00e9 est de faire Ta volont\u00e9. \u201d<br><br>Qui suis-je vraiment ?<br><br>Le Rambam apporte une r\u00e9ponse extraordinaire.<br><br>Il \u00e9voque le cas d&#039;un mari juif qui, selon la halakha, est tenu de donner un guet \u00e0 sa femme, mais qui refuse. Conform\u00e9ment aux conditions d\u00e9finies par la halakha, un tribunal juif peut l&#039;y contraindre jusqu&#039;\u00e0 ce qu&#039;il d\u00e9clare\u00a0:<br><br>\u201cRotzeh ani \u2014 Je veux.\u201d<br><br>Comment une d\u00e9claration extorqu\u00e9e peut-elle \u00eatre consid\u00e9r\u00e9e comme sa v\u00e9ritable volont\u00e9 ?<br><br>Ma\u00efmonide explique que, fondamentalement, ce Juif souhaite faire partie d&#039;Isra\u00ebl, accomplir tous les commandements et se tenir \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9cart des transgressions. Qu&#039;est-ce qui l&#039;en emp\u00eache\u00a0?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Son yetzer l&#039;a submerg\u00e9.\u2075<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La contrainte ne cr\u00e9e pas une nouvelle volont\u00e9. Elle supprime l&#039;obstacle qui emp\u00eache sa volont\u00e9 profonde d&#039;agir.<br>d&#039;\u00eatre exprim\u00e9.<br><br>C&#039;est une mani\u00e8re r\u00e9volutionnaire de se comprendre soi-m\u00eame.<br><br>Un d\u00e9sir peut \u00eatre r\u00e9el sans pour autant \u00eatre mon d\u00e9sir le plus profond.<br><br>Je peux l&#039;affirmer sinc\u00e8rement :<br><br>\u201cJe veux \u00e7a.\u201d<br><br>Et quelque part au plus profond de moi, une autre voix peut dire :<br><br>\u201c Mais ce n\u2019est pas ce que je veux devenir au final. \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L&#039;esprit de folie<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pourquoi donc une personne p\u00e8che-t-elle ?<br><br>La Guemara d\u00e9clare :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201c Ein adam over aveirah ela im ken nichnas bo ruach shtut \u201d \u2014 \u201c Un homme ne commet pas de transgression \u00e0 moins qu\u2019un esprit de folie ne l\u2019envahisse. \u201d\u2076<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le chapitre 24 de Tanya explique cette id\u00e9e.<br><br>L\u2019esprit de folie (ruach shtut) obscurcit le lien profond qui unit le Juif \u00e0 Hachem. Tanya donne l\u2019exemple de celui qui pourrait succomber \u00e0 une passion interdite, alors m\u00eame que cette personne serait pr\u00eate \u00e0 sacrifier sa vie plut\u00f4t que de rompre son lien avec Hachem par l\u2019idol\u00e2trie.<br><br>Pourquoi cette incoh\u00e9rence ?<br><br>Car au moment de la tentation, la personne se persuade que cet acte pr\u00e9cis n&#039;affecte pas r\u00e9ellement sa relation avec Hachem.<br><br>Voil\u00e0 la folie.<br><br>S\u2019il parvenait \u00e0 vivre pleinement ce que son moi profond d\u00e9sirait vraiment, explique Tanya, il pourrait surmonter m\u00eame une passion puissante.\u2076<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ainsi, le yetzer hara peut influencer ce que je ressens sans pour autant d\u00e9finir qui je suis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pourquoi Hashem ne supprime-t-il pas la lutte ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais une autre question demeure.<br><br>Si Hachem veut que nous fassions le bon choix, pourquoi ne pas supprimer le yetzer ?<br><br>Le chapitre 27 de Tanya apporte une r\u00e9ponse \u00e9tonnante.<br><br>Une personne peut \u00eatre aux prises avec des pens\u00e9es ind\u00e9sirables de mani\u00e8re r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9e et se d\u00e9courager\u00a0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c Pourquoi est-ce que je continue \u00e0 me battre contre \u00e7a ? \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le Alter Rebbe r\u00e9pond :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C&#039;est peut-\u00eatre pour cela qu&#039;il a \u00e9t\u00e9 cr\u00e9\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chaque fois qu\u2019il rejette la pens\u00e9e inappropri\u00e9e, il atteint l\u2019iskafya \u2014 la soumission de la force n\u00e9gative. Le combat r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9 peut lui-m\u00eame faire partie de son service divin.\u2077<br><br>Si Hashem voulait des \u00eatres sans d\u00e9sirs contradictoires, il avait d\u00e9j\u00e0 des anges.<br><br>Les \u00eatres humains peuvent \u00e9prouver un d\u00e9sir et choisir quelque chose de plus \u00e9lev\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce choix a une valeur \u00e9norme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Et qu&#039;en est-il des Bnei Noach ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L&#039;enseignement de Ma\u00efmonide sur <em>Rotzeh ani <\/em>et l&#039;explication de Tanya concernant l&#039;amour divin cach\u00e9 se r\u00e9f\u00e8re sp\u00e9cifiquement \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e2me juive.<br><br>Mais le principe plus g\u00e9n\u00e9ral du raffinement humain rec\u00e8le \u00e9galement un message profond pour les Bnei Noach.<br><br>\u00c0 la fin du chapitre 1 du Tanya, l&#039;Alter Rebbe cite les Sages selon lesquels le bien accompli par les nations peut naturellement se m\u00ealer \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9r\u00eat personnel \u2014 \u201c\u00a0l<em>e-garmayhu<\/em>, pour soi-m\u00eame.<br><br>Une personne peut faire un don \u00e0 une \u0153uvre de charit\u00e9, mais une partie de sa motivation peut \u00eatre\u00a0:<br><br>Je veux \u00eatre reconnu.<br><br>Je veux que les gens m&#039;admirent.<br><br>Je veux me sentir important.<br><br>Le commentaire Lessons in Tanya note imm\u00e9diatement une exception importante\u00a0: parmi les nations se trouvent les Chasidei Umos HaOlam, les Pieux parmi les Nations, dont la bont\u00e9 peut provenir d\u2019une v\u00e9ritable pr\u00e9occupation pour autrui plut\u00f4t que de l\u2019int\u00e9r\u00eat personnel.\u2078<br><br>Cela signifie que la motivation naturelle ne doit pas n\u00e9cessairement \u00eatre notre destination finale.<br><br>Une personne peut commencer par :<br><br>\u201c Qu\u2019est-ce que j\u2019y gagnerai ? \u201d<br><br>Il peut \u00e9voluer vers :<br><br>\u201c De quoi l\u2019autre personne a-t-elle besoin ? \u201d<br><br>Et finalement :<br><br>\u201c Que veut Hashem de moi ? \u201d<br><br>Le Rebbe lui-m\u00eame a abord\u00e9 la formulation complexe du chapitre 1 du Tanya. Il explique qu&#039;elle ne peut signifier qu&#039;un non-Juif soit litt\u00e9ralement d\u00e9pourvu de toute \u00e9tincelle de bont\u00e9 \u2014 sans une \u00e9tincelle de divinit\u00e9, rien ne pourrait exister. Cette \u00e9tincelle peut plut\u00f4t \u00eatre profond\u00e9ment enfouie et manquer de conscience \u00e0 sa source divine.\u2079<br><br>L&#039;\u00eatre humain peut se perfectionner.<br><br>Et Ma\u00efmonide nous dit o\u00f9 ce voyage peut mener.<br><br>Un non-Juif qui accepte et observe les Sept Lois noachides parce que le Saint les a ordonn\u00e9es dans la Torah et les a fait conna\u00eetre par l&#039;interm\u00e9diaire de Mo\u00efse est appel\u00e9 un :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hassid MiUmos HaOlam \u2014 l&#039;un des Pieux parmi les Nations.\u00b9\u2070<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pas seulement :<br><br>\u201c Je ne vole pas parce que la prison est d\u00e9sagr\u00e9able. \u201d<br><br>Mais:<br><br>\u201c Je ne vole pas parce que mon Cr\u00e9ateur a ordonn\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019humanit\u00e9 de ne pas voler. \u201d<br><br>Pas seulement :<br><br>\u201c Je me comporte moralement parce que la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 fonctionne mieux. \u201d<br><br>Mais:<br><br>\u201c Je veux vivre selon la volont\u00e9 d\u2019Hashem. \u201d<br><br>Le moi n&#039;est plus l&#039;autorit\u00e9 supr\u00eame<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La v\u00e9ritable bataille de Ki Teitzei<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Peut-\u00eatre est-ce l\u00e0 le sens plus profond de\u00a0:<br><br>\u201cKi teitzei lamilchamah al oyevecha\u201d \u2014 \u201cQuand tu pars en guerre contre ton ennemi.\u201d<br><br>Il y a des ennemis \u00e0 l&#039;ext\u00e9rieur de nous.<br><br>Mais il y a aussi un champ de bataille \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9rieur.<br><br>La Torah ne nous enseigne pas \u00e0 nous ha\u00efr pour avoir des d\u00e9sirs.<br>La Torah ne nous dit pas non plus que, parce qu&#039;un d\u00e9sir est naturel, nous devons le suivre.<br><br>Cela nous apprend quelque chose de bien plus important :<br><br>Un d\u00e9sir est r\u00e9el, mais il n&#039;a pas \u00e0 me dominer.<br><br>Pour un Juif, il y a une d\u00e9couverte encore plus profonde :<br><br>Je peux dire : \u201c Je veux ceci. \u201d<br><br>Mais mon \u00e2me peut r\u00e9pondre :<br><br>\u201c Rotzeh ani. Ce que je veux vraiment, c\u2019est faire la volont\u00e9 d\u2019Hashem. \u201d<br><br>Et pour un Ben Noach, il y a aussi un cheminement ascendant \u2014 de l&#039;instinct \u00e0 la ma\u00eetrise de soi, de l&#039;int\u00e9r\u00eat personnel \u00e0 la bont\u00e9 authentique, et du seul raisonnement humain au service conscient du Cr\u00e9ateur \u00e0 travers les Sept Lois.<br><br>Hashem ne nous a pas cr\u00e9\u00e9s comme des produits finis.<br><br>Il nous a cr\u00e9\u00e9s capables de raffinement.<br><br>La plus grande libert\u00e9 est peut-\u00eatre de ne pas faire tout ce que je veux.<br><br>C\u2019est d\u00e9couvrir que je peux choisir quel \u201c d\u00e9sir \u201d me d\u00e9finira.<br><br>Et c&#039;est peut-\u00eatre pour cela que cette bataille existe.<br><br>La lutte n&#039;est pas n\u00e9cessairement un obstacle \u00e0 notre mission.<br><br>C&#039;est peut-\u00eatre pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment l\u00e0 que notre mission sera accomplie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong>Shabbat Shalom<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Par le rabbin Avriel Rabenou<\/strong>, MSc. MBA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sources et notes<\/strong><br><br>1 D\u00e9varim 21\u00a0:10-14 ; Kiddouchine 21b ; Rachi \u00e0 Devarim 21\u00a0:11 \u2013 \u201c Lo dibrah Torah ela keneged yetzer hara. \u201d<br>2. Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, Sichat Shabbat Parachat Ki Teitzei, 11 Eloul 5727 (1967). (chabad.org)<br>3. Sifra\/Torat Kohanim, Kedoshim, sur Vayikra 20\u00a0:26\u00a0; Rachi ad local. \u2014 \u201c Efshi, umah e&#039;eseh, v&#039;Avi<br>shebashamayim gazar alai.\u201d<br>4. Berachot 17a \u2014 la pri\u00e8re du rabbin Alexandri : \u201c Galui veyadua lefanecha sheretzoneinu la&#039;asot retzonecha\u2026<br>Se&#039;or Sheba&#039;isah Veshibud Malchuyot. (Sefaria)<br>5. Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilkhot Gerushin 2:20 \u2014 l\u2019explication de \u201c Rotzeh ani \u201d. (Chabad.org)<br>6. Sotah 3a ; Tanya, Likutei Amarim, chap. 24 (et voir chap. 25, o\u00f9 l&#039;Alter Rebbe explique que le cach\u00e9<br>L\u2019amour donne \u00e0 une personne la force de surmonter la tentation. (Chabad.org)<br>7. Tanya, Likutei Amarim, ch. 27 \u2014 \u201c Peut-\u00eatre est-ce pour cela qu\u2019il a \u00e9t\u00e9 cr\u00e9\u00e9\u2026 \u201d et l\u2019avodah d\u2019iskafya.<br>(Chabad.org)<br>8. Tanya, Likoutei Amarim, fin du ch. 1\u00a0; Le\u00e7ons dans le commentaire de Tanya (n. 33) concernant Chasidei Umos<br>HaOlam. (Chabad.org)<br>9. Rabbi Menahem M. Schneerson, Lettre n\u00b0 95, 29 Menahem Av 5703, expliquant la conclusion de Tanya<br>chapitre 1. (Chabad.org)<br>10. Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Melachim U&#039;Milchamot 8:11 \u2014 d\u00e9finition de Chasidei Umos HaOlam.<br>(Chabad.org)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a9 Copyright, tous droits r\u00e9serv\u00e9s. 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Parshat Ki Teitzei begins with one of the Torah&#8217;s most surprising laws. 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