{"id":20556,"date":"2025-01-03T08:12:24","date_gmt":"2025-01-03T07:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukkatshalom-bneinoach.com\/?p=20556"},"modified":"2025-08-17T14:37:14","modified_gmt":"2025-08-17T13:37:14","slug":"parashat-vayigash-5785-is-my-father-still-allive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukkatshalom-bneinoach.com\/it\/parashat-vayigash-5785-is-my-father-still-allive\/","title":{"rendered":"PARASHAT VAYIGASH 5785 \u2013 MIO PADRE \u00c8 ANCORA VIVO?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"PARASHAT VAYIGASH - IS MY FATHER STILL ALIVE?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nC3y_Nvm7TU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><strong>\u05d1\u05e1 \"\u05d3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parashat Vayigash In this week&#8217;s Torah reading we find Yehuda giving a long speech in front of Yosef about the suffering of YAakov in the case that Binyamin stays in Egipt. Yosef, moved by his brother, finally shows himself to his brothers and askes if his father is still alive. What&#8217;s the point of the question? Furthermore, we don&#8217;t find an answer to it&#8230; Based on Likutei Sichot vol. 15, p. 387.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Vayigash: Is my father still alive?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this week\u2019s parasha, <em>Vayigash<\/em>, we witness Yehuda\u2019s approach to Yosef. At the time, Yehuda did not know he was speaking to his brother Yosef, but he began a long and emotional speech\u2014the longest speech in the entire Torah. Yehuda recounts a story filled with deep emotion, explaining that Yosef wants to keep Benjamin in Egypt while the rest of the brothers return to the land of Canaan to their father, Jacob. Yehuda objects, saying this is impossible because their father has already lost one son from his beloved wife Rachel, and losing Benjamin would be unbearable for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yehuda describes how they came to Egypt to buy food and had to answer questions about their family. He emphasizes that their father cannot live without Benjamin and insists he cannot allow Benjamin to stay behind while he himself returns to Canaan. Yehuda\u2019s words deeply move Yosef, and the Torah tells us that Yosef could no longer control his emotions. Overcome with feelings, Yosef reveals himself to his brothers: \u201cI am Yosef, your brother.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Following this revelation, Yosef asks a striking question: \u201cIs my father still alive?\u201d This question has puzzled commentators. Yehuda had just spoken at length about their father, who was clearly alive at the time. Why would Yosef ask such a question, and why does the text not provide an answer?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Explaining Yosef\u2019s Question<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to one commentator, Abarbanel, Yosef\u2019s question was simply meant to initiate conversation. However, this seems unnecessary, as they were already engaged in a conversation. Why would Yosef ask a question he already knew the answer to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A possible explanation is that Yosef\u2019s question was not meant literally but was an expression of wonder: \u201cIs my father truly still alive?\u201d He was astonished that Jacob could still be alive after 22 years of immense grief and suffering. The Midrash teaches that Jacob could not be consoled after Yosef\u2019s loss because one cannot find consolation when a loved one is still alive. When someone has truly passed away, over time, the pain begins to subside, but when the person is alive, the sense of loss and longing continues. Yosef was reflecting on the enormity of Jacob\u2019s suffering and marveling at his father\u2019s endurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This understanding clarifies Yosef\u2019s urgency in telling his brothers: \u201cHurry, go to my father, tell him that I am alive, and bring him here.\u201d Yosef himself did not go to Jacob because he believed that G-d had sent him to Egypt to save them during the famine. He saw his role in Egypt as a divine mission and felt he could not abandon his post.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What Can We Learn From This?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Torah is not merely a history book; it is a guide for life. One key lesson from this story is that even when strictness is necessary in a given situation, one must exercise great caution. As soon as the need for strictness ends, one should immediately transition to kindness to prevent unnecessary suffering. Yosef emphasizes the importance of urgency multiple times, saying, \u201cHurry, hurry, be quick.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Discorso del rabbino Tuvia Serber<\/strong><br><br><br>Questa \u00e8 una rappresentazione del testo parlato convertito in testo scritto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a9 Copyright, tutti i diritti riservati. 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Yosef, moved by his brother, finally shows himself to his brothers and askes if his father is still alive. 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