PARSHAT KI TAVO – TURN PAIN AND SORROW INTO JOY

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This blog post is a summary of a powerful lesson on the significance of parshat Ki Tavo. It’s definitely worth watching the full lesson on YouTube for a deeper insight. Here, we share some key ideas and practical lessons on how we can use our speech in daily life to build rather than break.

Standing in the Valley: Blessing and Curse

Picture this: an entire nation gathered in a valley. On one side rises Mount Griezim, lush and green, the mountain of blessing. On the other, Mount Eval, barren and stark, the mountain of curse. Six tribes face one mountain, six face the other, while in between stand the Kohanim, the Levites, and the Ark of the Covenant.

The people hear: blessing if you follow the covenant, curse if you betray it. It is as if the Torah paints morality directly onto the landscape.

And though we are not in that valley today, every human being still stands there daily.

Moral Clarity in a Foggy Age

We live in a time allergic to clarity. Everything is relative, we are told. Don’t be so black and white. Yet Parashat Tavo cuts through the fog. There are moments when life truly is black and white. Our choices carry weight. Blessing and curse are real.

The dilemma for modern man—and for every G-d-seeking person—is this: do we believe our choices carry meaning beyond the moment? Or do we think life is random, history just chance, morality only personal taste?

A Cinematic Scene

Deuteronomy 27:11–13 records:

“And Moses charged the people the same day, saying, These shall stand upon Mount Griezim to bless the people when you come over the Jordan: Shimon, Levi, Yehuda, Yissachar, Yosef, and Binyamin. And these shall stand upon Mount Eval for the curse: Reuven, Gad, Asher, Zevulun, Dan, and Naftali.”

It is almost cinematic.

The Sforno explains that the ceremony was staged to dramatize moral consequence. Blessing and curse are not hidden; they are proclaimed publicly in a way no one could ignore.

Midrash Tanchuma adds that the mountains themselves represent clarity. Mountains dominate the horizon—you cannot overlook them. In the same way, the Torah refuses to let us live in moral fog. Blessing and curse must stand before us inescapably.

The Tochacha: Consequences Woven into Life

Later in the parsha, in chapter 28, we encounter the tochacha—the admonition for failure to keep the commandments. This version is longer and more detailed than the earlier one.

The Torah warns:

“It shall come to pass, if you will not hearken unto the voice of the Lord your G-d, to observe to do all His commandments and His statutes which I command you this day, that all these curses shall come upon you and overtake you.”

And again:

“If you will not observe to do all the words of this law that are written in this book, that you may fear this glorious and fearful name, the L-rd your G-d, then the L-rd will make your plagues extraordinary, and the plagues of your seed—even great plagues, and of long continuance, and sore sicknesses of long continuance.”

The Ramban teaches that disloyalty to the Torah corrodes every part of life: soul, society, economy, health, and even the land itself. The exhaustive detail shows us that consequences are not random—they are built into reality.

Though this tochacha was addressed specifically to Israel under the covenant of Sinai, Bnei Noach can also learn from it, drawing lessons about responsibility and consequence.

Serving with Joy

Near the end of the tochacha, a crucial verse appears (28:47):

“Because you did not serve the L-rd your G-d with joy and with gladness of heart, for the abundance of all things.”

This is the fulcrum. The issue was not that G-d was not served—it was that He was not served joyfully.

Serving G-d without joy is like giving a gift with resentment. It poisons the relationship. Rabbi Nachman explains that joy comes from remembering G-d’s kindness and recognizing life as a gift. The Slonimer Rebbe adds that joy is not an ornament but the very engine of divine service.

The Torah, and even the seven Noahide laws, are not checklists for behavior. They are meant to transform the individual, shaping the soul into a vessel of joy. Blessing flows not just from obedience, but from willing, joyful devotion.

Rav Yisrael Salanter illustrates this with the commandment to honor one’s parents. It is not enough to perform the deed robotically. The goal is to cultivate real feelings of respect and love, so that the mitzvah transforms the person inside.

Fresh Every Day

Deuteronomy 26:16–19 says:

“This day the L-rd your G-d commands you to do these statutes and judgments.”

Rashi comments: every day the Torah should feel as if it were given anew. It is eternal, evergreen.

The Yid HaKadosh lived this literally—each morning he awoke as if becoming Jewish for the first time. This sense of renewal is central to serving G-d with joy.

The Torah continues:

"You have declared the L-rd this day to be your G-d… and the L-rd has declared you this day to be His treasured people.”

Here the covenant is mutual: Israel commits to Hashem, and Hashem commits to Israel. Zechariah teaches that as redemption draws near, even the nations will gather to G-d. For Noahides, this covenantal connection is expressed through the Sheva Mitzvot Bnei Noach, humanity’s universal bond with G-d.

Urgency and Choice

Isaiah 55:6–7 echoes the parsha’s urgency:

"Seek the L-rd while He may be found, call upon Him while He is near. Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous his thoughts, and let him return unto the L-rd, and He will have mercy upon him.”

The choice is real. The consequences are real. And Hashem waits for us to return.

On the personal level, honesty at work, integrity in private, compassion at home—none are small things. They ripple outward as blessings or curses. On the societal level, justice and compassion bring blessing, while exploitation and corruption write curses into the future.

For Bnei Noach, the seven laws are not mere rules but a covenantal framework. Choosing righteousness affirms that covenant and brings blessing into the world.

Planting Seeds That Matter

Blessings and curses are like seeds. But while a field does not care whether you plant wheat or thorns, G-d does. He multiplies our choices with His providence. Our freedom is real, but so are the divine responses to what we sow.

Elul: The King in the Field

At this time of year, as we enter Elul, the message sharpens. The Torah says, “Blessing and curse are before you.” Elul adds, “The King is in the field.” G-d feels close, and moral clarity grows sharper.

The Ramchal, in Mesillat Yesharim chapter 1, teaches that man was created only to delight in G-d and enjoy His radiance. Everything else people call “good” is empty in comparison. Every step we take is either ascent toward this or descent away. There is no neutral.

To live in Elul is to know that choices matter, and that Hashem is near, waiting to receivebution to G-d’s vision of a just and compassionate world.

Door rabbijn Tani Burton

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