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INTRODUCTION
Gratitude is more than just a polite “thank you”—it is a powerful force that shapes our perspective on life, deepens our relationships, and connects us with the Divine. In Jewish tradition, gratitude is not merely an emotional response, but a moral foundation that elevates both the individual and society as a whole.
Gratitude for Parents and G-d
Gratitude for our parents is deeply rooted in Jewish tradition. It is one of the strongest ways we learn to express gratitude. Our parents are the ones who provide us with everything we need, and their love and care are fundamental to our development. Acknowledging their kindness makes it easier to also feel and express gratitude for G-d.
Gratitude for G-d, the ultimate Source of everything, is strengthened when we learn to recognize and cultivate this gratitude in our daily lives. Just as we appreciate our parents for the blessings they give us, we must also acknowledge that all the good we receive ultimately comes from G-d. This recognition is the foundation of our spiritual connection with the Creator.
Gratitude as a Moral Foundation
The sages teach us that recognizing goodness is one of the most important ethical principles. When we cultivate gratitude, we open our hearts to the realization that everything we receive—whether from people or from G-d—is a gift. It is essential to understand that even the smallest acts of kindness from others ultimately come from G-d. This awareness fosters humility, strengthens relationships, and inspires us to give back.
The Divine Gift of Gratitude
True gratitude extends beyond material blessings. The Torah reminds us of the highest form of gratitude in the context of Shabbat, which serves as a weekly commemoration of G-d’s gift of creation. Shabbat calls us to pause and reflect on the sacredness of life and the awareness that all we have is a gift from G-d. Without this awareness, life would feel empty, no matter how many worldly pleasures we accumulate. But a life filled with gratitude for the Divine becomes truly meaningful and fulfilling.
Although Noahides do not observe Shabbat in the same way that Jews do, they may still use it as a day of remembrance for G-d’s creation. Shabbat serves as a reminder that all we have is a gift from G-d, and it provides an opportunity to appreciate His grace and the gifts He has bestowed upon us. Recognizing creation as a gift from the Creator is a powerful way to acknowledge the blessings of life and deepen our gratitude.
As it is written in Exodus 31:13:
| know that I am Hashem who sanctify you. | לָדַעַת, כִּי אֲנִי יד’ מְקַדִּשְׁכֶם |
This verse emphasizes the connection between holiness and gratitude, reminding us that recognizing G-d’s blessings helps elevate our lives to a higher spiritual awareness.
The Ultimate Recognition of Goodness
True gratitude leads us to the recognition of the ultimate good: the perfection of the world, both physically and spiritually. Our gratitude should not only be directed at past blessings but also inspire us to contribute to a better future. When humanity collectively embraces gratitude, it leads to unity, justice, and a world where goodness flourishes.
As the prophet Hosea (6:3) says:
| 3 And let us know, eagerly strive to know Hashem, His going forth is sure as the morning; and He shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter rain that watereth the earth.’ | ג וְנֵדְעָה נִרְדְּפָה, לָדַעַת אֶת-ד’, כְּשַׁחַר, נָכוֹן מֹצָאוֹ; וְיָבוֹא כַגֶּשֶׁם לָנוּ, כְּמַלְקוֹשׁ יוֹרֶה אָרֶץ |
True gratitude nourishes the soul, just as rain nourishes the earth, and brings us closer to G-d, to each other, and to a world filled with purpose and joy.
Cultivating Gratitude in Everyday Life
- Acknowledge the small things – Expressing thanks for everyday moments strengthens our appreciation for life.
- Practice mindful reflection – Taking time to reflect on our blessings fosters a deeper awareness of Divine goodness.
- Express gratitude through action – Giving back, helping others, and living with kindness are all ways to embody gratitude.
- Recognize G-d’s presence – Understanding that every good thing ultimately comes from the Creator transforms gratitude into a spiritual experience.
By embracing gratitude, we not only improve our own lives, but we also contribute to the healing and betterment of the world. Let us strive to live with open hearts, appreciating the gifts we receive, and using them to bring more light into the world.
Source of inspiration
Ein Aya by Rabbi A. Kook p.9 par 14
By Angelique Sijbolts
With thanks to Batya Yaniger for the inspiration and feedback and to Rabbi Tani Burton for his feedback
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